Saturday, November 1, 2008

Quick Update

Well, although overcast, it wasn't raining when the party started today. Of course, it had already rained cats and dogs from about 5:30am to about a half an hour before the party was to start. Every picnic area at the park was flooded, with the exception of a table by a tree that had a generous number of birds in it--and with my luck, they'd just shit on me all day, so that was nixed. Got to love the park. Got to love the weather even more.

So, the party was at our house. Thankfully, I had managed to clean the house and garage enough so there would be room for the forty people we expected. Ten people decided they would melt in the rain and didn't come. They didn't call, of course; they just didn't show (the bastards).

The boys were in rare form, totally overwhelmed by all the people and whiny. The cake they so loved on Monday was the LAST thing they wanted in front of them, so even though I told everyone how much they love it, no one really believed me. (I whipped out my laptop for proof and to keep my credibility.) My sink is full of dishes. The trash is overflowing. My freshly mopped floors are now covered in mud.

I didn't really take many pictures, though, because I spent the day running around being hostess. (Yuck. I don't like being hostess--it's way too much work!) Most of the pictures would have included a crying or sleeping child, so I suppose that was okay.

It occurred to me, as I looked at the 27 adults, 1 teenager, and 2 kindergartners at the party, that the boys need to start networking. Aren't birthday parties supposed to be for kids? I am thinking I need to make the boys little business cards to hand out at some area child hang-out. You know, something like "Hi! I am Ja.son (or Sh.awn), and I am an awesome friend." Maybe hand them out at the local gym.bor.ee or something. I am only half kidding!

But...

All in all, it was a good day! :-)

So, now that the boys are finally asleep I am finally off to bed to get some much needed rest and hopefully get rid of the circles under my eyes. Ahh....I can't wait...

edited to add:

Is.aac did redeem himself slightly this morning. It's a good thing, too, because I was definitely a woman on the edge. Seriously.

I also forgot to mention that my mother-in-law showed up. (for those of you keeping track, this may be the sixth time she has ever seen the boys, even though she lives about two miles away. it totally bugged me that she wanted to hold the boys and play with them, too! am I bitter, much?) This was interesting not only because she works two full time jobs and never has any time off, she is also a Jeho.vah's Witness. And she brought a freakin' gift! I swear. I don't think I am ever going to understand his family.

5 comments:

  1. hi - ok 1st - you are an awesome mom! and guidelines say that you only invite the number of children that is equal to the age of the child (children in your case. so 1 yr old invite 1 other 1 yr old - 2 yr old = 2 "friends" etc - so you are doing fine!
    and gymboree is totally the place we made our 1st bunch of "friends" too. then i joined a mother's club - and as you've seen from our pix - we just had 18 almost 3 y/o's here for a halloween party.
    as for the MIL - who understands them anyway? mine is just as bad! be thankful she brought a gift - i just hope it fit / or was something you approve of, that usually isn't the case for us! wish you lived closer - we'd have come!

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  2. I'm sorry for the rain....glad that the party went off though.

    Weird mother in law ! I don't know that it isn't a blessing that she doesn't come around all of the time ;-)

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  3. Freaking rain....always manages to screw everything up! Good planning on your part though & you were able to have it at home!
    Ew @ you MIL though- I hate that when people who come around 1x a decade show up and try to act like she's all close with the boys and crap. You're not bitter- you're 110% right with how you feel. HOWEVER- I guess you have to give her a half a point for even showing up right? Gift and all?
    ok maybe not....
    I LOVE LOVE the business card idea! What a cute idea!!!!! But I'm sure the boys would make so many friends in an instant at gym.bor.ee- do they go there now?

    and lol @ you having to whip out the laptop for some proof of happiness! Bet you the rain ruined the boys' moods damnit!
    Glad it all worked out though and they had a great party :)


    And a HUGE HUGE HUGE LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL @ you having new kids on the block's happy birthday song! I was obsessed with them for years and I heard it like faintly and almost had an attack!!!

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  4. awww, sorry about the rain but at least you had a backup plan (i prob wouldn't have thought of that and would have been miserable at the park). i don't like being hostess either, it's waaay too much work and the hostess never has any fun. :(

    joining a gymboree-type thing would be a great place for the boys to make friends. but watch out because shawn & jason are so adorable that all the little girl babies would be all over them! :)

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  5. U have one of those in your family too?? My FIL has seen my son MAYBE 10 times in the almost 2 years he has been alive and he lives across town.

    He has a new step family and step grand children and is apparently too busy to fit us in. Go figure.

    Plus he won't come to ANY parties because MIL is there and heaven forbid he grow up and just be there for his granson.

    Sorry... I'm rambling. Glad the party went well!!

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