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I was at my mom's today, picking up the boys when she got a knock at her door. She opened it to a loud "April Fool's Day!" My grandmother was standing there. We were shocked.
Now this is going to seem ungrateful and horrible, but I wasn't exactly glad to see her. I love my grandmother and all, but the selfish part of me just thought about how I'd have to spend every waking minute at my mom's visiting her. She even managed to make me feel guilty when I took my over tired boys home this afternoon for a nap!
My grandmother lives about ten hours away, which usually means plenty of warning before we see her. That is something I really appreciate because I like to wrap my mind around the idea of visiting and socializing before I actually have to do it. (I have become somewhat of a homebody now. RSV quarantines tend to do that to a person.) This time I had no chance to prepare!
I can't wait to talk to my mom to feel her out on this surprise. I'd feel less like a heel if my mom expresses a similar reaction.
Plus, everyone is still sick and not at our best. The boys are cranky. I am cranky. Even my mom is cranky! I am sure this will mean that my grandma will get caught up in our germ fest and become cranky, too. (she doesn't need any extra cranky. trust me.)
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Two more wake-ups until spring break! Yippee!
Hope y'all feel better and that the crankfest doesn't spread to your grandma.
ReplyDeleteI like notice before having to socialize, too, you're not alone. :)
ReplyDeleteHope it goes well, though, and the sick goes away.
Enjoy spring break!
The plus side about being a teacher- all the breaks you guys get! so jealous!
ReplyDeletehope everyone feels better in time to enjoy the spring!
Is this the....we want to it be bronchitis...no we don't...yes we do...no we don't, things ? :)
ReplyDeleteSometimes you just want it to be something that a pill will cure.
Tomorrow is FRIIIIDAAAAY ! And we all know what that means. RE appointment.
Yikes on the grandma surprise. Not sure how I would have handled that one...
ReplyDeleteI hope that it does not become bronchitis... you don't need to deal with that right now!
I hope your visit with the RE tomorrow goes "well" - whatever that means!
Sounds like the visit is just a lot to handle, especially with the kiddos and the sickness - I'm sorry you didn't have warning :(
ReplyDeleteUGH. If your grandma is anything like MY grandma, I totally understand.
ReplyDeleteI completely understand you wanting to stay close to home with the boys. We, too, are homebodies. Friends give us crap about it all the time, but the twins get sick enough.
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