Monday, July 30, 2007

The Gang Was All There

Well the cookout was quite an event! Like I said, it started as a nice quiet event with just Dh's immediate family (for a total of 7 adults and one child). In a blink of an eye, there were 28 people there. They were coming out of the woodwork! Fortunately, two rather large groups were unable to come because of the short notice.

The day went well, except for when my MIL cornered me. I haven't seen her at all since we announced that we are pregnant. That is pretty sad when you consider that she lives about 3 miles away from us. She is an interesting person and can be a handful at times, so I am happy that I don't get the pleasure of her company that often. Anyway, MIL cornered me just as everyone else was leaving. She tells me that her talk with my husband several months back must have made a difference. She told him that we needed to not be "so angry" and (my favorite) "relax" and it would happen. She just knew that was what did it for us; we finally relaxed and got along. WTF? Of course, I should take this with a grain of salt. She was also the one who told Dh that she "knew we could do it" when he told her we are pregnant. She didn't even say congratulations.

Anyway, I tried to point out that the blood thinners probably had a lot to do with our success, but it was pointless. (She has no idea that we did ivf.) It just irritates me to have her go around thinking that all was okay because we relaxed. Sigh.

Family can be fun sometimes.

On a brighter note, Dh and I have planned an anniversary trip to Vegas this weekend. I am pretty excited. Our anniversary is on the 2nd, but we won't go until Saturday afternoon. We'll come home on Tuesday. It will be nice to get away for a little "together" time before the babies come. Plus, maybe we'll come back millionaires and won't need to work! Hmmm......

Opps sorry, I was day dreaming there.

Sunday, July 29, 2007

I'm Feeling a Little Sappy...

I don't know why, but I am feeling especially sappy when it comes to my husband. I would be content to touch him twenty four hours a day. It is the strangest thing. In our relationship, he is by far the more touchy-feeling person. I have always been a little more standoffish--not to the point of being rude or anything, I just want my personal space. That is a thing of the past. Now I want to touch him, be near him, or at least always be in the same room with him. Odd. He is totally thrilled about this change. It still feels off to me.

We had a productive weekend so far. Yesterday, we spent the day tiling the back splash in our kitchen. I was really nervous about it because we don't work well together traditionally. Yesterday, however, the whole project went smoothly, and it looks really good! (If I do say so myself!)

Now I am off to a cookout at dh's brother's house. I am not sure if I am looking forward to it or not. What started as a little get-together with his immediate family has somehow blossomed to a large shindig with the whole clan. (He's Hispanic so that means there will be loads of people there.) It should be interesting, though, because we haven't seen any of them for several months. I hope we manage to make it through without any of the usual drama that his family is notorious for. Fingers crossed!

Thursday, July 26, 2007

15 Weeks!

Sorry I've been MIA lately! I have no excuses, really, unless laziness is considered one. That is pretty much all it was--laziness. That, and I think I am experiencing that "pregnancy brain" phenomenon. I thought that pb was merely a myth, something men used to describe their pregnant wives when they became hormonal and crazy. (I say crazy because I am having some clear crazy moments over the last few weeks.) I have come to discover that this condition really does exist, and I am afflicted. Couple that with laziness and, well, you get the idea.

My trip to San Diego was a lot of fun but extremely tiring. I think it took about a week to fully recover once I got home. I went with four other ladies from work. They were so much fun and a blast to be around. (That is the best thing about the school that I work at. I am surrounded by wonderful people who I genuinely like and care for!) We went out to eat and saw the town. The only problem was that we had to do a lot of walking. A LOT. I had to continually rest and tell everyone to slow down. This was especially embarrassing because one of the other ladies, Dawn, was 6 and 1/2 months pregnant, and she NEVER complained about anything. Me, on the other hand? I was always telling them I needed to rest, or eat, or pee. Always something. The others took it well and didn't make me feel bad--thankfully--and I think I did pretty well over all.

Since my return, I haven't done very much. I went out to lunch with some friends last week and managed to get the worst sunburn. I don't know how I did it, either. I was sitting in the shade, under an umbrella, and spent no more than 10 minutes in direct sunlight. I was wearing 15 sunblock. Still, I was fried. So much so, that I had huge welts on my arms, neck, and scalp for several days. (Have you ever had your scalp peel? Not pretty, let me assure you!) I was even sick to my stomach that night. Dh was concerned, so he had me check on the babies pretty regularly over the weekend. Neither one seemed to care how miserable their mother was. Both of their heartbeats were steady and strong--Thank Goodness!

Speaking of babies, I have had some interesting experiences since I last posted. First, I made a new pregnancy friend. Her name is round ligament pain. She is quite the delight to have around! Apparently, I had made her acquaintance several weeks before for fleeting moments, but I just didn't know her name. Thanks to my doctor for clearing it up for me. Once we were formally introduced, she wanted to stick around a little more. That led to a few days last week when I was living on Tylenol trying to kill the constant annoyance of her presence. I think she is finally getting the message that I am not wanting to party, because I haven't had too many problems this week. This week, I only feel it when I sneeze or move suddenly. Not too bad anymore. I am keeping my fingers crossed that it doesn't get bad again. (I can dream, right?)

I also think I felt the first baby thump. I have felt it several times. It feels more like someone is flicking me with their fingers from the inside. I probably wouldn't have even noticed it except that it was so consistent over a few days. I used the Doppler, and sure enough, the heartbeat for Ethel was right where the feeling was. It truly was the coolest thing yet and totally makes up for the visit from round ligament pain. I haven't felt Lucy yet (except a brief sciatic pain I had that may have been from Lucy kicking). I think that is because she seems to be further back away from the outside of my belly toward my spine.

I am now 15 weeks. Almost through my fourth month. Probably around four and half months to go until the babies arrive. Wow. It's still surreal. Still checking my undies to see if I have started. Some things die hard!

For those of you interested in a belly shot for 15 weeks, here you go...

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P.S. I have been tagged twice and I haven't forgotten. I will work on both tags over the weekend!

Sunday, July 8, 2007

I am off to San Diego for the week for a conference. The time actually sneaked up on me. I knew it was coming, but never really expected the time to get here!

I sure hope I am able to function while I am there! I'll be back Friday night, so I will update on Saturday (assuming I am not sleeping the day away in recovery mode).

Wednesday, July 4, 2007

12 Weeks Down, 28 To Go!

12 weeks today!

I can hardly believe it. I am still in a strange sense of denial about this whole pregnancy, even after seeing my little beans kicking and waving their legs and arms...even with the incredible hunger and fatigue I feel...even with this increasing bump of a belly I've got going here. I know I am pregnant, but I am still waiting for it all to sink in at some point.

I finally flipped my calendar to July yesterday. Yesterday was the one year anniversary of our first appointment with the RE. It stopped me in my tracks and really made me think. It's amazing how much can change in a year.

Tuesday, July 3, 2007

Wow!

I went for my first trimester scan today. The best way to describe it is...Wow! We got some really detailed pictures of each baby and some 3D ones also. The babies were flipping around, stretching their legs, hitting each other, and looked all around beautiful. Both babies are ahead in growth at approximately 12w3d (I am 12w tomorrow). The nuchal skin folds were .96mm and 1.0mm, well below the 3mm max allowed for "normal". They both also had noses, which I was assured that Downs babies do not have. Those results are a huge relief. I go back to have another ultrasound in four weeks--a perk of having twins!

The technician also said that she thinks that baby a is a boy. She couldn't tell what sex baby b is. I might need to rethink my Lucy and Ethel nicknames!
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